This might sound a bit nonsensical as its just something I really need to get off my chest.
Over the past month or so there has been a campaign set up to ‘implement’ a dress code for nationals, expats, men and women a like in the UAE. Now when I first thought of this I thought that this didn’t concern me as I believe I am a sensible twenty year old (at least when it comes to clothes!) and I just brushed it off at first. However over the past couple of weeks it became clear that this campaign had turned sour especially on twitter (@shivamLM if you want to follow me by the way). People were bringing in religion, insulting each other whilst not really providing a proper solution to what some perceive is a problem. Personally I don’t feel twitter is the best platform to have a discussion on such an important issue as it is open to abuse whilst hiding behind a mask, yet there have been some very good points and bad points brought up around this issue through twitter and through the media.
Firstly, to make it clear I have no problem with what people wear it is their choice and that doesn’t concern me one bit. But we are in a country where there are certain guidelines to follow and you have to be respectful towards that. If you are a lady you really shouldn’t walk into a shopping mall wearing beach wear. Yet in my twenty and a half years of living in this country I have yet to see someone dress in a way that is offending to others (unless you are wearing a QPR shirt you won’t offend me). I have also never seen anyone complain or be asked to ‘cover up’ more by mall security etc. There will always be a minority in anything in life regardless of people trying to eradicate something. But to make it clear I have absolutely nothing against you wearing whatever you want.
Secondly there are strong reports in the local media that a law will be made enforcing a dress code/dress guideline. I am strongly against this I don’t think it sets the right message to have a law for this issue which I think is pretty trivial certainly to me. I mean sure you can create awareness such as brochures, posters and booklets but at the end of the day it comes down to the individual alone and how much responsibility they have to do the required research about the country and its customs. Most of us are responsible human beings and 9 out of 10 us are going to dress sensibly most of the time (certainly those of you reading this), but by setting a law it creates that sense of control within a society which I am sure most wouldn’t want to be burdened under.
Thirdly and probably the reason I am posting this garbage is this word that is being carried on twitter and in the media – “influence.” I have seen people say that children will get influenced by what they see people wear in the mall… REALLY? ARE YOU KIDDING ME!? This word has been used on children who play violent video games, I have been playing games that people consider violent since the age of maybe 10-11 and I am certainly no murderous psychopath. Children are far smarter than the media make them out to be, just annoys me that this lazy and pathetic excuse gets dragged out every single time an issue such as clothing and gaming comes up.
In any case, I believe there does need to be a certain amount of respect for the country we are in however let us not go too overboard. There are far more important issues to deal with within the UAE at the moment (such as traffic deaths, sexual abuse, increase in Barcelona fans and so on).
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